
Autism Resource Directory
This page is a collection of resources intended for autistic people, loved ones of & professional providers for autistic people. The resources include referrals, books, online resources, training recommendations and more. My hope with this is to make finding affirming care & helpful information on autism easier for people to access. This page allows me to put all the resources I have in one easily shareable place.
Other quality resource compilations on this topic can be found here:
Autism Resources Compiled by Dr. Christine Henry | BSS Autism Library: Books – Research Studies
Disclaimer: I intend for these recommendations to be used as a starting place, and for you to utilize your own discretion to discern what is truly right for you. If you have any questions, concerns, corrections or additions, feel free to reach out! I am adding to & adjusting this page fairly regularly, and your feedback can only help to improve it.
Books & Podcasts
Podcasts
- Divergent Conversations Podcast
- Unapologetically Sensitive Podcast
- (my podcast, NeuroJoy, is coming soon!)
Books
- Self-Care for Autistic People by Dr. Megan Anna Neff
- Living Sensationally by Winnie Dunn
- Looking After Your Autistic Self by Niamh Garvey
- Self-Care for Autistic People by Dr. Megan Anna Neff
- I will Die On This Hill by Megan Ashburn & Jules Edwards
- Taking off the Mask by Dr. Hannah Louise Belcher
- The PDA Paradox a memoir by Harry Thompson
- NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity by Steve Silberman
- How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis
- Queerly Autistic: a guide for Autistic, LGBTQ+ Teens by Erin Ekins
- The Explosive Child by Ross Greene
- The Adult Autism Assessment Handbook: A Neurodiversity Affirmative Approach by several authors in collaboration
- How to Handle Relationships: a Neurodivergent Affirming Guide for Autistic Folks by Caitlin Hughes
- The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism by Naoki Higashida
Many of these books can be found at your local library, and if not, you can also request your library to add it to their collection [article: how to request a book at your library].
Social Media Creators
When connecting with content creators online, there’s so much conflicting information it can be tough! There are unfortunately so many folks online who do not know how to properly interpret research. That being said, my general recommendation is to ensure creators have strong guidelines around centering autistic voices, that they are open to new ideas able to handle criticism/accountability, are open to challenging experiences, and that they refrain from ableist language & paradigms. I also recommend avoiding communities that are focused on trying to sell you something.
- @neurodivergentinsights
- @fidgets.and.fries
- @nigh.functioning.autism
- @audhd_academic
- @neurowild_
- @audhdantics
- @autistic.qualia
- @autism_sketches
- @blackspectrumscholar
- @dannywithwords
- @nd.narratives
- @littlepuddins.ie
- @getaway_autist_mobile
- @transitionabilities
- @play.learn.chat
- @livedexperienceeducator
- @audhd_therapist
- @auntinelle
- @neurokinection
- @montessoriandsensory
- @beyondspeechtherapycenter
- @notanautismmom
- KC Davis
- The Autistic Teacher
- Simon Says It’s Possible
- Nigh Functioning Autism
- Fidgets & Fries
- OccuPLAYtional
- Danny with Words
TikTok
- @emhahee
- @GenericArtDad
Apps
- Finch App for self care & goal setting/keeping (can cost $/month)
- Stay focused (restricts time spent on an activity)
- Pic Alarms (alarm with picture chosen by user)
- Speak Reminders (reminder app that speaks aloud your calendar)
- Voice Notes (converts speech to text)
- Echo (audio recorder)
- Emergency Chat (for nonverbal needs)
Employment & School Support
Employment Support
Resources for job opportunities & workplace supports
- Job Accommodation Network
- Neurodiversity Employment Network
- Finding work-from-home jobs:
- ScribeAmerica – Medical transcription, on the job training
- FlexJobs – Full Time Telecommuniting
- Nashville Software School
School Support
- Full List of Scholarships for Students with Learning Differences
- Jessica Beaty – support for IEPs & 504s
- Lisa Baskin Wright – support for IEPs & 504s
Articles & Videos
Understanding Autism from an ND-Affirming Lens
- Decoding Autism in the DSM-5
- Neurodiversity: Transforming the Paradigm
- It’s Not BPD, It’s Autism
- The Bright Side of Being Autistic
- Seeing Autism in a Positive Light
- “Isn’t Everyone a Bit Autistic?”
- Autistic Burnout
- Understanding Alexithymia & Interoception
- PDA: Pathological Demand Avoidance
Autism & Relationships
- Different Types of Empathy
- Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
- Autistic Social Behavior
- Unhealthy Relationships
- Autism & Relationships
- Different Types of Empathy
- AuDHD & Relationships
- Understanding Non-Autistic Social Skills
- Dating as an Autistic Person
- Theory of Mind vs Double Empathy
- Sex Education Resources for Folks with Intellectual Disabilites
- I cannot account for this having the most affirming language, but there are a lot of super thorough & helpful books/PDFs/infographics that I think can still be useful, and if needed, adapted to be a bit more affirming.
Autism & Food
Autism in Women
The Intersection of Autism & Race
- An Expert Discussion on Structural Racism in Autism Research and Practice
- Autism’s Race Problem
- Autistic While Black
- Autisic Black Lives Matter & the Privilege of White Autistics
Misc Articles
- Autistic Play
- [Regulating] Heavy Work Activities for Sensory Seekers
- A new study on possible autistic subtypes
Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA)
Discussions on the Ethics & Efficacy of ABA
- “F it… I’ll Just Put It All in One Book” an honest e-book about ABA by a black autistic woman, mother of 2 non-speaking autistic boys.
- “The Argument Over a Long-Standing Autism Intervention“
- “Pocketing Money Meant for Kids: Private Equity in Autism Services“
- “Things Only Autistic People Can See“
- Academic Study: Effects of long-term ABA
- Academic Study: Self-injurous behaviors
- Uniquely Human Podcast – “A Father, A Son and the ABA Machine“
- “Why Social Skills ‘Training’ Doesn’t Help”
Current Neurodivergent professionals discussing the issues of the ABA world & how they are trying to navigate existing systems
- @beardedbehaviorist on instagram – (autistic person)
- @autie.analyst on instagram – (autistic person)
- Mindful Behavior LLC
- Responding to Criticisms of ABA, a document by Dr. Megan Miller
- @msjennybx on instagram – (neurodivergent person)
- “Not a Tiger Mom” Podcast a neuroaffirming podcast hosted by Jenny Sun Lai, MA, BCBA & Bettina Lopez-Lam, MS, CCC-SLP
Alternative Forms of Support
- Non-ABA Evidence-Based Practice – Therapist Neurodiversity Collective
- ABA Alternative Compilation – StimPunk
- Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS)
- Research supporting the efficacy of CPS model
- CPS Official Website
- The Explosive Child by Ross Greene
- Lives in the Balance Nonprofit
- You can find CPS Trainings linked on this page under “Trainings,” or under “trainings” on the CPS official site, Ross Greene’s website or Lives in the Balance’s website as well.
- When it comes to learning about CPS & other alternatives for behavioral support, I highly recommend joining a Facebook Group or two for more community & support.
Organizations
- Giving Every Child a Voice with AAC – free software
- Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network (AWN)
- PlayLearnChat – Resources for Parents of Neurodivergent kids
- Collaborative & Proactive Solutions – problem-solving techniques for family work (GREAT alternative to ABA)
- Embrace Autism – website & blog written by autistic psychologists. Very well written & well-researched work that I recommend for everyone!
- Neuroclastic
- PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) North America
- Alternative Teaching Strategy Center
- The Color of Autism – connecting families to trauma informed and culturally competent support
- Autism in Black Foundation
- Autism Self-Advocacy Network
- Resources Page from NDTherapists.com
- International OCD Foundation’s page on Autism + the overlap with OCD
- Neurospark
- Autistic POC Fund – mutual aid funds & more for autistic folks of color.
Finding Community
In-Person Autism Connection Opportunities
Autism TN Community Groups (free!)
- Spectrum Socials
- (for autistic folks of all ages & their families) including board game days, pool parties & more
- Adult Autistic Groups
- Various for autistic adults, LGBTQIA+ autistic adults, & an upcoming group for women + gender expansive + nonbinary autistic adults
Friends Life Community* (small monthly fee)
- Social Club
- A space for disabled adults, typically folks with higher needs, to connect 2-3 times a month.
- *I am not super familiar with this organization & cannot vouch for them having values/practices that align with my typical standards
Therapeutic & Coaching Groups
Autistic Adults
- DnD, Pottery, Yoga & more for Autistic Adults – The Hope Preserve
- Autistic Adults Processing Group – Invictus Counseling
- Neurodivergent Therapeutic DnD Group coming soon!
- Late Diagnosed Adults – Sarah Bergenfield, MA
- Late Diagnosed Autism Group (+ HSP) – Rayne Satterfield, LCSW
- Finding Your Fit – PayWhatYouCan Peer Support
Autistic Kids & Teens
- Kid Connections Program – Helping neurodivergent kids connect over shared interests. For ages 3 to 17. Not a group, but a great connection-building program & it is free.
- Groups for Autistic Teens – DnD, Pottery, Yoga & more at The Hope Preserve
- Kids Social Groups – Replenish Counseling’s groups are open to kids of any neurotype, however can be a great place for autistic kids to connect with other kids & gain more social confidence. They have Role Playing groups which feature role playing table table games (RPTTGs) such as DnD (Dungeons & Dragons), which I think is a great activity for autistic people.
Parents & Caregivers of Autistic People
- Parenting Neurodivergent Kids – Katie Larson
- Neurodivergent Parent Coaching & Support Group – Shane Thrapp
- Parent Support/Training Group – Linda Huber
- PDA Parenting Group using Collaborative Problem Solving – YourConfidentChild
- Caregiver Support & Education Group – YourConfidentChild
- Color of Autism Parent Support Group – Color of Autism Foundation
Online Autism Community
The internet is one of my favorite tools for accessible connection, validation & resources. Here I’ve listed just a few recommendations of communities on reddit & Facebook to check out. I have heard discord is another great place to find folks!
Kid Connections Program at All Brains Belong – Helping neurodivergent kids connect over shared interests. For ages 3 to 17.
Reddit Threads
- r/SpicyAutism
- r/AutismInWomen
- r/AskAutism
Facebook Groups
(listed in no specific order)
- NeuroClastic has an Article for That
- Ask Autistic Adults
- Families and Allies of Nonspeaking Autistic Youth
- For Autistic Individuals:
- Autism Late Diagnosis/Self-Identification Support & Education
- Executive Dysfunction Meals – sharing ideas for meals that can be easily made in the midst of burnout
- Autistic Women+ Living Authentically
- PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) Support
- Autistic People who are also Parents:
- For Non-Autistic Parents/Caregivers of Autistic People
- For Therapists/Other Professionals:
*More info on Collaborative Problem Solving
Professional Referrals
I encourage you to use the links associated with each individual provider to get the most accurate info on their work. If a link is broken, I recommend typing their name into google along with words like “tennesee”, “mental health,” “therapist,” etc.
NDTherapists.com & NeurodivergentPractitioners.org both have directories for neuroaffirming providers across the US + more that I recommend if you need more options!
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Assessment Providers
If you are looking for an assessment provider not on this list, check out this article on How to Find a Neuroaffirming Assessment Provider, written by my psychologist friend & assessment provider, Dr. Heather Joppich.
Other considerations: Confidentiality Matters: The Case for Private Pay Psych Testing | Signs of Autism in Adults & When to Seek Testing
+ = offers payment plans and/or pricing packages
** = takes some forms of insurance
# = Available in TN Only
- + ScienceWorks Behavioral Health – adults only, available for all PSYPACT states
- + Zephyr Care – ages 2 & up, available for all PSYPACT states
- Michelle McAtee – adults only, available for all PSYPACT states
- # Lila Homan – children & adults
- # Quirkiatry – individuals, teens & up
- # ** Dr. Van Horn – children & adults, accepts most insurance. My recommendation is Dr. Van Horn only. I’ve been told it may be difficult to get in with her specifically versus being randomly assigned a provider by the organization. That being said, I do not endorse any other provider at this practice.
Other Directories
- Dr. Henry’s Directory, another resource directory created by a fellow neuroaffirming therapist
- NDTherapists.com has a directory that includes providers in many countries outside the US. While I am unsure if any provide assessments, the therapists who are listed would be a good point of contact to start looking for assessment options in your area.
- Neuroclastic’s Directory of Autism Diagnostic Specialists is another place to find possible autism assessment providers, however I cannot confirm whether or not they are utilizing the best methods.
These are providers I have personally worked with & trust for autism assessment. Unfortunately, not all assessments are the same, and being picky about who does it is important.
*** Also see “Self-Assessment Tools” section
Therapists (TN Only)
All the therapists below I have personally vetted to have a good understanding of autism & neurodivergence from an affirming lens. If they have additional specialities, I have included that info from the best of my knowledge. All of these therapists are LGBTQ+ affirming.
** = takes some forms of insurance
- ** Abby Myers – preteens & up, individuals, families & groups
- Alison Moore – adolescents & up, individuals & families
- ** Amanda Lucas – ages 11+
- ** Ashton Anselmo – individuals, teens & up
- ** Calli Morgan – individuals, all ages
- Clarksville House of Healing – focused on offering affordable therapy for all people
- ** Colleen O’Connell – individuals all ages
- ** Dan Dumont – individuals & families
- Danielle Ryder – individuals, adults only
- David Spielman – individuals & couples, teens & up
- Gray Skies Therapy – individuals, couples & families
- ** Hampton House Counseling
- ** Hannah Pollock – individuals, families & couples – preteen & up
- ** Heather Knight – individuals, families & couples
- Healing Umbrella Psychotherapy
- The Hope Preserve – individuals, couples, & fun therapy groups!
- James Hammons – individuals
- ** Jay Reid – individuals & couples
- Jen Biddle – individuals & couples, adults
- Jenny Beard – individuals, adults
- Juliana Breeden – individuals, couples, & families
- Karen Swaney – individuals – OCD
- ** Katie Casey – individuals, adults only
- Katy Hurst Counseling – individuals, couples & families
- ** Katie Larson – individuals & couples, ages 12 & up
- ** Kiesa Kelly – individuals
- ** Kristin Cuzzourt – individuals, adults
- ** Lindsey Stevens – individuals, couples, & families, preteen & up
- Maggie Ratley – individuals & families, age 6 & up
- Miranda Pool – individuals, age 6 & up
- Nat Nigro – individuals, kids/teens/adults
- Pamela Hicks – individuals & couples
- Rachel Hammons – individuals, preteen & up
- Rayne Satterfield – individuals, adults only
- Reece Thomas – individuals
- Replenish Counseling
- Ryan Robertson – individuals (adults & teens), couples & families
- Sarah Bergenfield – individual & couples
- Taylor Borck – individuals & families, preteen & older
- ** Works Counseling Center
*I am finding more therapists for this list all the time!
*Additional ND-affirming therapists may be found here
Psychiatry (TN Only)
** = takes some forms of insurance
- ** Brandon Teeftaller
- ** NeuroKind Mental Health
- **Kiara Porro
- Lila Homan
- Rhonda Bartine
- Ocean Ray
- Quirkiatry
- Wildflower Psychiatry – women 18+ only
Therapists who, in my opinion, are well informed on autism & provide ND-affirming care.
Doctors or Nurse Practitioners who can provide medication support. I find meds can be helpful, not to “treat” autism, but rather to provide support for the extra stress that comes with being autistic in a neurotypical world.
Occupational Therapists (TN Only)
** = takes some forms of insurance
Occupational Therapists can be helpful for things like navigating sensory needs, fine motor skill development, and more.
Speech Language Pathologists (TN Only)
Speech Language Pathologists can be helpful for things such as communication, issues with swallowing, & more.
Dieticians (TN Only)
Dieticians can be helpful for things such as finding alternative ways to meet your nutritional needs while still honoring your body’s need for things like texture consistency & access to safe foods.
Coaches
- Shane Thrapp – parents, families & individual support
- Parent Coaching at YourConfidentChilddiscussion, and advice
- Robert J Grant at AutPlay
- Neurodivergence – for neurodivergent adults or parents of a neurodivergent child – education and exploration about neurodiversity, therapies, and advocacy
- Parent Training – for parents – general parenting strategies/coaching and co-parenting planning
- Case Consultation – for professionals – case review,
Coaching can be great for both autistic folks & caregivers of autistic folks for supporting short-term goals.
Groups
More options may be found in the Nashville-Area Group Therapy Directory, though I cannot vouch for how ND-affirming they may or may not be. https://www.seconddog.org/nashville-groups
Autistic Adults
- Finding Your Fit – PayWhatYouCan Peer Support
- Groups for Autistic Adults – DnD, Pottery, Yoga & more at The Hope Preserve TN Only
- Autistic Adults Processing Group – Invictus Counseling, hosted by Rachel Hammons, LPC TN Only
- Late Diagnosed Adults – Sarah Bergenfield, MA TN Only
- Late Diagnosed Autism Group (+ HSP) – Rayne Satterfield, LCSW TN Only
Autistic Kids & Teens
- Kid Connections Program – Helping neurodivergent kids connect over shared interests. For ages 3 to 17. Not a group, but a great connection-building program & it is free.
- Groups for Autistic Teens – DnD, Pottery, Yoga & more at The Hope Preserve TN Only
- ReplenishHer Social Groups – RH’s groups are open to kids of any neurotype, however can be a great place for neurodivergent kids to connect with other kids & gain more social confidence. They have Role Playing groups which feature role playing table table games (RPTTGs) such as DnD (Dungeons & Dragons), which I think is a great activity for autistic people. TN Only
Parents & Caregivers of Autistic People
- Parent Support/Training Group – Linda Huber TN Only
- PDA Parenting Group using Collaborative Problem Solving – YourConfidentChild
- Caregiver Support & Education Group – YourConfidentChild
- Color of Autism Parent Support Group – Color of Autism Foundation
Groups which meet either in person or online & are led by a trained individual.
Self-Assessment Tools
Though self-diagnosis is a perfectly valid form of assessment for autism, it still takes consideration of many different factors. These screeners provide clarity around some of those factors. These screeners are also not the same content you would find in a full, formalized assessment (formal assessment isn’t always more accurate than self-diagnosing, but it is different). One important aspect of a full assessment is that it often includes screening for common comorbidities, such as OCD or ADHD. See “Professional Referrals” section for assessment providers if a formal diagnosis is desired.
Some Info to Consider
- “Isn’t Everyone a Bit Autistic?”
- Decoding Autism in the DSM-5
- Adults with Autism: Changes in Understanding Since DSM‑111
A Helpful Book
- Is This Autism? by Donna Henderson
Online Screeners
- CAT-Q, RAADS-R & several others
- These screeners alone do not equal an autism diagnosis, but they can provide insight into aspects for you to consider further, and certainly there is a correlation in certain scores here & autistic folks.
- Monotropism Questionnaire
- Important context & commentary on the Monotropism Questionnaire
- Academic Article: Development and Validation of a Novel Self-Report Measure of Monotropism in Autistic and Non-Autistic People: The Monotropism Questionnaire
Professional Trainings
At the end of the day, working with autistic individuals in an affirming, anti-ableist way, most of us (me included) require a paradigm shift. More than using the correct terminology or being up to date on the latest research, I would argue that anti-ableist shift as the most important piece. Honoring & centering the lived experience of autistic folks has not been a priority in the scientific world for a long time, and unfortunately that has impacted much of our education & research on the subject. There are several wonderful books on how that came to be & its impact on the community (check out my recommendations for that listed under the “books” heading in this document).
Below are trainings from wonderful professionals that can aid in your journey of becoming truly neurodiversity affirming, in a format many of us are familiar with. Best wishes along your journey!
- Challenging Myths about Autism – What Assessors and Therapists Need to Know: Lessons from the Neurodiversity Movement
- Becoming a Neurodivergent-Informed Clinician: Understanding ADHD and Autism through a Strengths-Based, Neurodivergent-Affirming Lens
- Autistic Wellbeing
- Mental Health Therapy with the Autistic Client
- Autism Spectrum Disorder: What Every Clinician Needs to Know
- Resources on Interoception for Professionals & Caregivers
- Everything is Connected to Everything: Improving Healthcare for Autistic & ADHD Adults
- Trainings from All Brains Belong
- Trainings from Learn Play Thrive
- Trainings from Play Learn Chat
- Trainings from The Art of Self-Healing Center
- Trainings from Bee Lourenco
- Neurodivergent Trainings for Clinicians, a compilation by Therapy for Pet People
- Trainings on Collaborative Problem Solving by Ross Greene
